Perspectives and views on various biblical topics

     Faith is being sure and positive.  Hope is expectation and anticipation.  Belief is receiving and accepting.  Knowledge is acquired information.  Wisdom is the applied use of knowledge with understanding.  Trust is having confidence in.  Searching is seeking to find or discover.  Diligence is not giving up, being persistent.  Discernment is perceiving and analyzing.  Judgment is a conclusion.  Reward is an award given for being obedient and mindful in regards to the specific Laws of the Universe.  Punishment is a penalty for being disobedient and ignorant for not regarding the specific Laws of the Universe.  Truth is Truth and it is what it is.  It is that simple and so it is.

Songs :  Something to talk about by Bonnie Rait
            When love comes to town by U2 and B.B. King


What is Love ?

      The answer is found in 1 Corinthians chapter 13.  The word charity is used in the the King James Translation.  However, when one looks to the Greek from which the translation was derived the word charity is not used in definition.

     The word charity was used to translate the Greek word agapē.  Agapē by definition is as follows:

               1.  affection, good will, love, benevolence, brotherly love

               2.  love feasts

     In my opinion, the word "love" is the correct usage in this chapter and one would have a correct understanding of what "love" actually is.  So here now is how the following chapter should read.

1 Corinthians chapter 13 :

     " Though I speak with the tongues of men and of angels, and have not love, I am become as sounding brass, or a tinkling cymbal.

     And though I have the gift of prophecy, and understand all mysteries, and all knowledge; and though I have faith, so that I could remove mountains, and have not love, I am nothing.

     And though I bestow all my goods to feed the poor, and though, I give my body to be burned, and have not love, it profiteth me nothing.

     Love suffereth long, and is kind; love envieth not; love vaunteth not itself, is not puffed up; doth not behave itself unseemly, seeketh not her own, is not easily provoked, thinketh no evil; rejoiceth not in iniquity, but rejoiceth in the truth; beareth all things, believeth all things, hopeth all things, endureth all things.

     Love never faileth; but whether there be prophecies, they shall fail; whether there be tongues, they shall cease; whether there be knowledge, it shall vanish away.

     For we know in part, and we prophesy in part.

     But when that which is perfect is come, then that which is in part shall be done away.

     When I was a child, I spake as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child; but when I became a man, I put away childish things.

     For now we see through a glass, darkly; but then face to face; now I know in part; but then shall I know even as also I am known.

     And now abideth faith, hope, love, these three; but the greatest of these is love."

Chapter 14 verse 1 :

     " Follow after love , and desire spiritual gifts, but rather that ye may prophesy."

1 John 4 : 18 :

     " There is no fear in love; but perfect love casteth out fear: because fear hath torment. He that feareth is not made perfect in love."

     Now you know what love is and what to desire.  This is the answer as so many have stated.  Other examples of love are stated all through out the bible and in numerous stories, movies and just plain daily life if you are attentive enough to recognize it for what it is; an emotion, yet it is so much more than that.

     Acknowledgement of each other by letting each other know so that both are then validated with understanding in a mature manner also would be required.  Walking away and saying nothing without acknowledgement is the worse thing a human being can do to another be it good or bad.

     The word love is also used in other forms of expression such as a love for chocolate ice cream, cheesecake, movies, nature; the list can be endless.  The word enjoy should be used rather than love in terms of expression in these instances to avoid confusion.

     Would I wait longingly for chocolate ice cream and cheesecake to show up at my front doorstep ?   Would I die waiting for it ?   Would I defend it to the death ?  Would I be waiting anxiously to receive a letter of love from my chocolate ice cream and cheesecake while separated for a short or long period of time ?  These are some serious questions to consider amongst a myriad of other questions concerning chocolate ice cream and cheese cake and I would more than likely defend my chocolate ice cream and cheesecake against all enemies foreign and domestic.  This is not about consumption but about being in love with the person who has touched your heart in a way that no else has ever done.  The person who has touched you to the very core of your being.

     Of course I am talking about universal love, unconditional love, intimate love and love in general; not unconditional acceptance.  I would also like to add that intimacy in its various categories is not all about love or sex either.

     There is also a love for family, friends, children, fellow human beings, animals, etc., which has been thrown out the window and getting worse on a daily basis.  For those of you who are abusers, haters, neglectors, manipulators, control freaks, and without any moral values; I'd suggest you re-examine yourself and your life in a mirror.  I don't think I need to explain or go any further for those of perversion either when it comes to love, sex or sexuality.

     For any of you out there that think love is sex, uhm, your wrong.  There are universal laws and morals concerning sex, sexuality and relationships which are sacred.  Sex, (which should be free of charge as nature intended it to be) is a union between two consenting individuals that are completely intimate with each other and are either :

     a.  In a relationship such as a marriage / union recognized by the law of men or spiritual union that is recognized by God and not man.
     b.  In a relationship but are in lust instead of being truly in love in which case the relationship will not last.
     c.  Not in a relationship and just living in lust in which case could lead to certain consequences or disease.

     The slogan cry of ignorance "Make love not war" is sickening.  First, love is an emotion you can't make and secondly love of course isn't sex.  Their slogan really implies "Lust and sex not War" which totally diminishes and perverts the meaning of the spiritual union and sacredness of sex via what is stated in (part a) and leads to (b and c).

     If there are two who have found each other and each has had their heart struck by the other, the sex can wait.  A spiritual unification and marriage must happen first (this is the spiritual union / marriage on both the spiritual and physical plane at the same time where a part of each is given and shared within the same body by the other and yet also having separate spiritual and physical bodies).  I'm not talking about going to a church and getting married on the physical plane; both will intuitively know in their own way since this is concerning spirit and it can be difficult due to ego and the self having to make room, adjust to the changes that are associated along with making a certain amount of sacrifice; then after the spiritual unification / marriage has been completed, a physical union can now take place (that would be the physical marriage; ring and all in whatever way the couple chooses) then the sex comes afterwards.  This is the universal law and order of a proper marriage and both within the relationship must start walking the straight and narrow after the initial meeting and initial separation, before and after the spiritual unification during separation, and also before and after the physical unification since both will be tested before, during and after each separation and unification after the initial meeting has taken place.  Both must be willing to go through the test while also having their lives balanced on all facets and work it out for themselves first (even if both are apart, not dating, involved with another, etc.) after the initial meeting and then together afterwards; if not, there will be karmic retribution with the risk of ruining, spoiling and losing what is to be theirs in the future.

     You've been warned.  Get it right and keep it that way.  You will most definitely know from the universe not to be or get involved in a relationship with anyone else (even if its a fling) and to prepare your life accordingly for "the one".

     You reap what you sow.  Be responsible for your actions, if you don't, there could be unforeseen consequences that could last a lifetime in which case, you are still ultimately responsible.

     Since the Universe intends on two people being together the Universe is going to ensure that it does happen and there is nothing that can stop it either physically or spiritually since both male and female are divinely married spiritually first and foremost before it even happens physically here on planet earth.

     For those whom are dating or married here is the ugly truth by Gigi Engle if you cheat on someone.

     Be aware and stay away from those whom use Love as a weapon of deception.  They do not have your best intentions at heart and walk not completely in the Light of Love and Truth be it rain or shine, summer or winter, day or night.

     Mirror of My Soul - Twin Flame Push and Pull or Unhealthy Co-Dependency

     YouTube Video 1 :  The #1 thing narcissists fear the most and don't want you to know. - Overcoming narcissistic abuse. 

     YouTube Video 2 :  The female narcissist.

     Here's a big Karmic issue :  Good luck with trying to convince a man that has met his twin and after separation she’s wanting to come back with baby in arms ?!  Not. Why would a sane man want to be responsible for someone else’s child if the relationship didn’t work out between his twin and the dead beat dad she chose over her own twin ?  That’s like bringing a living trophy home and saying, "ha ! ha ! look what I did without you, sorry, can I wreck and ruin your life, have your money and home, and will you give up your freedom now because I made a mistake ?"  Any sane man would likely kick the bitch to the curb, slam the door shut, say goodbye and move on with his or if the shoe is on the other foot, her own life.  A person lays in the bed they make for themselves and only have themselves to blame.
     Why would a sane man want to be constantly reminded of his twin that romped in the sack with someone else while he was being benched and sidelined the whole time ?  What about the dad if he showed up at the man's house while away or her going to his.  Nope, uh uh.  I call Bullshit.  Wouldn’t it be wrong and detrimental to the child as well causing confusion ?  Of course there are the extenuating circumstances in which I am not going to go into detail here but I'm sure one would get the point.
     In concerns to myself, I live my truth, free from the matrix of illusion, never been married, single with no kids, in damned good health (finally, thanks be to God, after being sickened for so many years in so many areas of my life and now I'm able to move forward like a locomotive at full steam busting through any remaining walls within my path) and would not procreate with someone else just because my twin (in theory) decided not to focus on union and would rather have someone else's child because her biological clock wasn't under control.  I’d rather go after my dreams, keep my wings and sail the dark night than give up my freedom and put myself under such abuse, ignorance, selfishness and thoughtlessness; it would be insanity to do so. 
     In my Mom's own words that I heard directly told to a friend of mine she did not like so well, and in another instance in my Dad's own words that I overheard him say concerning myself to someone else "He'll make it, he's smart !", thanks Mom and Dad, may you both forever rest in peace with little brother, I know via spirit that you are still with me :))  Of course, if the shoe was on the other foot via a woman in the same position as myself, she would more than likely agree.

     Here is another karmic issue / justice :  if a female twin is involved in a long term relationship with a male soul love partner, wouldn't that constitute fair game for the male soul love partner's female twin to be available to the male twin who isn't involved with their own female twin who is hooked up with a male in a soul partner relationship ?  I would think so.  Two birds one stone.  Of course there are extenuating circumstances and living your truth depending upon the situation given at hand.

     Unconditional Love is not Unconditional Acceptance :  Truth and a Free Mind is Enlightenment and being Enlightened also means living your truth and being true to yourself with a free mind that has been released from the matrix of mental bondage and deception from those who would rather have you live and believe otherwise.  Only you yourself can do this on your own with direct guidance from God who is Love and the Source of All and his Angels via Spirit that is completely pure and unmovable.

     Most of us are familiar with the story of Adam and Eve and no, women do not have an extra set of ribs and men aren't missing any either although Adam, the first man being created has one bone less.  Hah !  That's funny, boneless !  Anyhow, there are only 206 bones in the human body.  When the God of the Bible took the rib from Adam after causing Adam to fall into a deep sleep (this would be the separation and Adam would probably be dreaming and I am sure God probably talked to Adam in his sleep and showed him visions); God had then formed Eve out of the dust of the ground with Adam's rib (the parable of Jesus using his finger to draw in the sand in John chapter 8) and then placed that same rib within Eve's rib cage as the final piece making Eve complete.  Hence why Adam had made the statement that Eve is "bone of my bones and flesh of my flesh" after God had brought and presented Eve to Adam.  There was a wholeness, a separation, and then a reunion

     To you women out there, go to and be with your man; it isn't the other way around because there will be another who will try to replace you if you do not and your Alpha Male just might settle with a replacement IF he gets tired of waiting and likes the idea and the replacement although the replacement will not have his heart and vice versa and the same rule applies to you if you continue to not own up to yourself or own up to the one you are meant to be with.  The relationship will be superficial and unfulfilling with anyone other than whom you are meant to be with.  Follow his lead; get moving !

     Eve carries the missing piece of Adam and is also a very vital part of Adam's life and when the two of them were united by God who is Love, they became complementary, whole and complete.  Adam is the Temple and house where Eve belongs and Eve is also a Temple that houses a part of Adam's Temple and is also a part of Adam.  Thus Adam also belonging to Eve.  Adam protects and Loves Eve since she is a part of himself.  Adam remains close to her heart and lungs she uses to breath the same air that he breaths.  Eve remains close to Adam as his Love, companion and helper.  Both of them working together in harmony and balance understanding each other perfectly.  Of course it was God who brought the two together after constructing and continues to do so for those of us who will be united in the near future that belong and are a part of each other.  God would be the master constructor and matchmaker and of course He has plans for those of us He is bringing into Union that are meant for each other and belong together.  No other has a closer relationship under God spiritually, physically, mentally and emotionally other than the two that are meant to be together in Union by God Almighty Himself.  The relationship is written and has existed in heaven before physical incarnation here on earth.

     Genesis 2:24  Therefore a man shall leave his father and his mother and shall cleave unto his wife; and they shall become one flesh.

     Matthew 19:4-6  Have ye not read that He which made them at the beginning made them male and female; and said, "For this cause shall a man leave father and mother and shall cleave to his wife and they twain shall be one flesh?"  Wherefore they are no more twain, but one flesh.  What therefore God hath joined together, let no one put asunder.

     Mark 10:6-9  But from the beginning of the creation God made them male and female.  For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother and cleave to his wife; and they twain shall be one flesh so then the are no more twain but one flesh.  What therefore God hath joined together, let no one put asunder.

     Ephesians 5:27-33  That he might present it to himself a glorious assembly; not having spot, or wrinkle or any such thing; but that it should be holy and without blemish.  So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies.  He that loveth his wife loveth himself.  For no man ever yet hated his own flesh; but nourisheth and cherisheth it, even as the Lord the assembly.  For we are members of his body, of his flesh and of his bones.  For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother and shall be joined unto his wife and they two shall be one flesh.  This is a great mystery but I speak concerning Christ and the assembly.  Never the less, let every one of you in particular so love his wife even as himself and the wife see that she reverence (have a deep respect) for her husband.

     A recommended video :  10 reasons not to have sex before marriage

     Note :  the video (are you dating or married to the wrong person ?) has been removed from youtube.  So here is my two cents about that topic.  When your other half, (also known as your twinflame and true soulmate) does show up in the picture and you are either married or dating someone else, your world is going to be turned upside down and never be the same again.  This is for both parties involved that are married or dating since both were probably not "meant for each other" in the first place and are "meant for someone else"; there are however, certain aspects such as children that could cause a twinflame non-union and both parents will be stuck with each other as a result if their twinflame has no children and decides that it would be best for the parents of that child to remain together instead of divorcing for the child's sake.  The twinflame that decides this will more than likely never return and continue to follow their life path without their other half by their side.

     For those of you that are married, the notorious "the other woman", "the don juan" or "the cheating spouse" titles are given when the twinflame arrives and the applecart is upset. 

     Important ! To clear up any confusion before moving forward.  Soul Partners (such as family, friends, pets and former or current "love" relationships that are compatible or semi-compatible along with superficial relationships) are erroneously called Soul Mates and usually end up in some form of separation that is permanent.  This is not to say that these relationships were or are unimportant since there are lessons to be learned from them.  Your Twin Flame, however, is your Soul Mate which is a bond that is eternal.  Twin Flames look out for each other and have each others backs in the spiritual, astral, and physical planes across time, space and the universe.  Woe to those who try to steal, kill, destroy or come in between them, their mission or their union in any way.  The Almighty's wrath and karmic consequences will be upon those who do.

      Luke 20 : 34 - 36 ;  Hebrews 13 : 2     The angelic human race  and  Awakening the human angels : The Holy Grails

     The Twin Flame mission is to not raise the vibrational whatever b.s. hocus pocus talk that is being spewed out.  There is simply not enough of us to do that and the reality of biblical prophecy is coming to fruition.  The twin flame mission is to first find themselves and each other within this world of illusion and brainwashed gunk, second is to become aware resulting in full realization of the truth before the initial meeting and during the separation after the initial meeting, third is to be in union both spiritually and physically being at home together in a lasting relationship after realization of the truth has taken place and then finally to help others who are on the same path looking for the answers or helping others in need of answers who want to know the truth before the Twin Flames go back to their original home together in Eternity.  There are other secrets but I leave it at that for the other Twin Flames to discover for themselves.  The work and mission is complex for each one of us.  Twin Flames are Earth Angels and Spiritual Warriors that are here to be tried and tested, some of whom lost their way and were never fully aware of who they actually are or were in the first place which can be a very scary thing while blossoming into full realization within this world.  You can believe it or not.  I on the other hand personally know for I have and am experienced and there is now nothing in this world that can change the facts of that truth for I am now fully aware and awake.  Part of my mission and work is this website.  I hope it helps for those of you searching for the answers.

     The following is a great blog writing I found concerning love and Twin Flames and yes we exist; I know from experience first and finding the facts later according to my experiences in life from past and current relationships and what is written is a perfect explanation of love vs. illusion, fantasy and lust.  Hang in there twins, the party starts when the two of you are together physically and then for all eternity.   Keep doing what is right, live your truth, follow your vision and you will not ever go wrong no matter what anyone else says or does.  You can't screw up the relationship with your Twinflame but you might cause permanent separation here on earth if you aren't careful and not being responsible for your own actions.

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     As human beings, we are born with an innate need to belong, to be loved and to find our own place in this world. It is this search for a deeper connection and belonging which sparks in us the remembrance of our true spiritual nature through experiences of love and connection with something greater than us. Since our true nature is spiritual, it makes sense to say that true love is spiritual too. However finding such love is not as simple as putting a profile up on and picking the one whose personality matches closest with ours; for we are not really looking for a counterpart for our personality, likes and dislikes, but rather a counterpart who in essence is the same as us.

     Enter our Twin Flame: this awe-inspiring, wondrous person who completes us and whose mind, heart and consciousness seem to flow from the same fountain as ours. We recognize ourselves in their eyes; those eyes that we’ve looked upon so many times before in so many faces; like mirrors reflecting only our true self back to us. It is like friendship set on fire: an instant, deep resonance that consumes us with its fierce, relentless flame of truth, passion and unconditional love. They seem to match and understand us down to our deepest core and we simply KNOW that we are meant to be together.

     Unfortunately while the heightened experience of love for our Twin Flame is very real and the feelings are mutual, to come into permanent physical union with them is another ball game. Often at least one twin will be unprepared for the intensity of the connection, or simply unaware of what is being offered, and there may be issues with timing. We find our dreams of romantic candlelit dinners and proposals at sunset crushed with the intense energies and complete ego annihilation involved which equate more to a test and a mission rather than anything to do with romance.

     Furthermore, if a physical union has been planned by the two souls, this will only occur once both souls are ready – and this may be months, years, even decades down the line. We should keep in mind that the Twin Flame connection is first and foremost a spiritual connection based on unconditional love and a shared spiritual mission here on earth. The coming into union often requires a lot of patience, preparation and work! Meeting our Twin Flame pulls the carpet right from under our feet, shaking our perception of reality and driving us inwards to find our own answers. It is a process where all our ideas about love, life and our self are totally picked apart and reconstructed.

Is this love that I’m feeling?

     After a brief reunion with my Twin Flame after 3 years of running, we both tried to define and make sense of what we felt – and didn’t feel – for each other by trying to fit our connection it into a pre-labeled box of friend, lover, future partner etc. Unfortunately translating the twin flame connection into earthly terms proves impossible since it will not fit any preconceived notions regarding love and ideal partners. What’s more, we find ourselves confused and thrown off track because the connection involves the totality of all human emotions including those of a friend, lover, parent, child, teacher, student & many more – and these can all be felt separately or together in endless combinations. We expect to feel giddy with excitement with butterflies in our stomachs but instead we feel the deep pride of a mother one moment, and the love of a sister for her dear brother the next, followed by an unmistakable sexual pull towards them. The breath and width of these emotions simply cannot be put into one neatly labeled box.

     In addition, our socially conditioned beliefs, air-brushed ideals of beauty and outdated templates all contribute to the image of an ideal man/woman that we hold in our minds – and which our twin rarely fits. Our twin is often unlike anyone we have ever been with or would usually be attracted to. We may be at a loss as to what exactly it is that we find so attractive in them since they are definitively “not our type”.  (Note by
JWPJr : uhm, I would disagree with this statement since I'm attracted to mine and vice versa, but anyhow).  On top of this, our definition of love is often based on previous experiences and fantasies of romantic Hollywood type “falling in love” associated with games of seduction, lustful sex and romantic gestures leading into a “happy ever after”. Therefore, when we meet our twin flame we suddenly find ourselves on unknown territory where we know we are feeling something special, magical and effortlessly “right”, but at the same time we do not quite recognize what it is or what it means since we have no point of reference.

     A few weeks after our reunion in 2005 my twin told me he did not feel romantic love towards me.  My heart sank since I had always known we were somehow meant to be “together”, and I knew of no other way to be with a man whom I loved and desired. This drove me inward to question what true love really is. I looked up definitions of romantic love and came across this one by Canadian sociologist, John Lee: “ Romantic love –the lover thinks constantly about the loved one, is jealous, unrealistic, will tolerate anything, is sexually attracted by physical appearance, needs repeated reassurance he/she is loved in return.” I agreed; this was not us, but what was it then?

     In my writings and my mind I started meticulously revisiting every single lover I had ever had. I was asking myself whether I had ever really loved anyone – and had anyone ever really loved me? I was trying to understand what it was that I felt for this man I hardly knew in the usual sense of the word; yet whom I would have trusted with my life, my children, my all, from the first day we met.  I started seeing things differently, identifying behaviors and patterns, and sharing it all with him out of some “necessity” to dig very deep within me; like I needed to show him everything about me, perhaps to get to the real me buried underneath it all.

The illusion of romantic love

     My initial disappointment transformed into clarity as I finally realized that this kind of unrealistic romantic love – the weak-kneed, starry-eyed kind of love – had nothing to do with true love. You see, our romantic fantasies fool us into thinking that all our problems will be solved once we find the perfect mate and fall in love. It is an infatuation driven by an emotionally intense game of ecstatic ups and downs; its lows temporarily painful but with no long term risk involved. Because it lacks real intimacy, we are able to hide and deny parts of ourselves to keep our partner happy and to maintain the status quo within the relationship, giving us a false sense of security which ultimately leaves us unsatisfied and yearning for something deeper, more connected and more REAL. In trying to meet our partner’s expectations we take on roles for fear that we will disappoint them or that love will be withdrawn if we show them the real us. Sadly, by the time we awaken from this dream, we find ourselves in a loveless relationship, unrecognizable to our self, wearing yet another mask, yet another layer hiding the real us; or perhaps already in middle of a bitter divorce or separation, wondering what went wrong.

     The thing is; the co-dependency of this kind of unrealistic “love” keeps us from growing into a whole person, whereas true love is the acceptance of the fact that our lover is not perfect and neither are we. When we truly love someone we understand that each of us needs to grow, and that we can be catalysts for each other’s growth. We can nurture one another, challenge one another and encourage one another. True love makes us want to be the best possible expression of our true self. It is not a bond of love; it does not seek to bind, possess or dominate, nor does it make claims of exclusivity on the other. Rather, it comes with spaces in the togetherness; space to breathe, to grow, to evolve into a whole being.

     True love is an ever-evolving and ever-expanding truth which comes with no guarantees except perhaps for reverence for each other. It has no rhyme and no reason yet remains steadfast, unchangeable and abiding. There is nothing our twin can do or say to change how we feel inside; there is nothing they could show us that would make us love or respect them any less. Real love comes to us quietly with a stability of emotion. It is not a lustful, impetuous passion driven by sentimentality and emotionalism but rather an element of calm and depth which quietly slips into our life and which peers deep into our soul. When we truly love someone we would never intentionally do anything to hurt the other. We only want their happiness, even when they make choices that do not involve us.

     A relationship based solely on romantic love requires two people to constantly communicate, bargain and compromise to remain in agreement with each other. Since there is no underlying resonance, the lovers need constant reassurance that the other still loves them. However, the spiritual affinity of true love allows us to understand and relate to each other on a much deeper level; that of the soul. True love reveals an entire new dimension of energetic possibility: we don’t need any validation or reassurance from the other since our connection is felt on the inside, and the need for reassurance is replaced by telepathy and synchronicities, and generally being on the same page with each other. The only confusion comes when the other is not being true to what is in their heart; since we are always able to see the intention in their heart – so that even when the words lie, the heart cannot.

     True love therefore requires integrity with ourselves; first and foremost. A Twin flame can only ever love the REAL you. How do we expect them to find us if we are hiding behind a mask? And how will we recognize them if we do not even recognize ourselves? We don’t even acknowledge our own falseness, yet we expect them to see us for who we really are. True love is a danger for our ego since it makes us experience ourselves directly; not through past experiences or beliefs or our ego, but by being alive in the NOW.  True love therefore is an invitation to show up as you are; to peel away the layers of protection and social conditioning, let go of self-doubt, and start seeing life with your heart. It is an invitation to become more of who you are.

Real love is a choice

     Twin flames are two sovereign beings with no need to control each other or interfere with each other’s choices. Any co-dependence should raise a red flag which tells you this is not your Twin Flame but more likely a karmic soul mate. When we really love someone, we don’t need anything from them. Yes, we may miss the person terribly and wish they were part of our life but we also know “what will be, will be”. We would never make any demands or claims on them that would cause them confusion or pain. If they choose to be with someone else even when we know that their soul loves us, we accept that this is something that they need for their growth and we wish them only happiness.

     Falling in immature, romantic love requires no effort whatsoever. There is nothing to choose or decide: this kind of love chooses you with its “I can’t survive without you”. Co-dependency, attachment, jealousy, blame, self-pity, emotional blackmail; they give you no choice. When we are held in relationships by a perceived “duty” or out of guilt, then we are no longer choosing love; because True love will always give you a choice. As long as you are compelled to do something because it is your duty then you don’t love what you are doing. Where there is love there is no duty and no responsibility.

     True love is unassuming, without pride or shame. It focuses on the will and involves choices: I can live without you, but I make a choice not to. If people can love each other in a mature way, no one will have to compromise their own feelings and preferences in order to be loved. Having a choice means having the freedom to choose. Freedom to choose only exists when all options are available to us. It says Life is “richer with you”. It is the greatest feeling in the world and a true experience of freedom: having the most important thing in the world without owning it.

The problem with real love

     To truly love someone is to take full responsibility for your own emotional states and feelings. Since love is the only thing that is real, anything else that arises within you is yours and ONLY yours to deal with since it is all your own creation. Is your Twin Flame sleeping with someone else?  Does he / she deny his / her feelings for you and constantly contradict himself / herself ?  Is he / she  ignoring your pleas for clarity on what is going on between you? Stop looking to him / her for answers that need to be found within your own being. If you truly love this person, you will LOVE and ACCEPT them just the way they are. Respect their right to travel their own path and don’t punish them for only doing the best they can. Make peace with your feelings by acknowledging these and letting them go, and lavishing yourself with all the love that you want to give them.

     The problem with real love is that to be able to receive it, we must first be able to give it. Unfortunately most of us don’t even have that quantity of love for ourselves. How can we accept having someone in our life that loves us more than we love ourselves? It’s impossible. Our Twin Flame makes us feel both understood and seen fully for the first time in our lives, but we also feel terribly exposed; all our imperfections acutely staring us (and them!) in the face. It is as terrifying as it is exhilarating. We are not used to seeing or displaying the vulnerable, not-so-pretty parts of ourselves – and here is someone who not only sees them but claims to love them too. This seems impossible to us; even we can’t love those parts; our own mother perhaps couldn’t… How could this person who on the surface has only known us for a few days, weeks or months, claim to do so?

     Our imperfections are part of us as much as our qualities are; and it is only by fully embracing them that they can be transformed. The thing with true love is that it allows us to see an imperfect person as someone who is perfect for us. This does not mean that we try to ignore those less-than-perfect parts of this person, turning our focus on the “good bits”, which is often what happens in relationships. This is not even an option for twin flames since the eyes of true love see so deeply into the other’s soul that those imperfections are very clear to us and could not be hidden from view. Rather, instead of denying these parts we love them just as much as we love all the outwardly and inwardly good things about them. The imperfections are what make them fragile and creates an intimacy, a bearing of the soul and closeness that cannot be denied.

True love is a spiritual practice

     Real Love has no linear progression since it has no beginning and no end. It isn’t a roller-coaster of ups and downs, but rather a swirling vortex, which lifts us on its expanding spiral currents, transcending the prison of self-centeredness. It gives the two people a glimpse of the divinity within them both. Time does not affect true love for it does not exist on the same plane. Ultimately therefore, true love is a spiritual practice which connects us with ourselves and with others at soul level and since it comes from Spirit; it also creates a living connection to God and to a greater purpose.

     In romantic love we start out with a supply of love which diminishes every time our lover fails to return our love or behaves in less than acceptable ways. We become frustrated, angry and think that their behavior means that we are unloved and undesirable. However true love for our twin flame comes from God. It is divine love, regenerative and unbreakable. It is a calling to give this one imperfect person all the love that we are capable of giving. It calls us to love them, this other aspect of ourselves so much that everything else simply falls away. We must love them without conditions even when we can not understand why or where from, and even when it seems like simply too much to ask. The more imperfect they are, the more they behave in ways that we cannot accept or understand, the more we should love them. This doesn’t mean that we should accept any kind of behavior from them, but that our love for them remains as strong as ever despite what they do or say.

     Real love is divine; it comes from a relationship with God. True love of the Twin Flames is a spiritual union which mixes friendship, a love affair and an act of worship. It is a mystical dance and a spiritual union of two souls which takes us beyond our human ego into the realm of the timeless, eternal, immortal and sublime love. As Twin Flames, we are simply acting as the divinity in human form which lavishes its unconditional love on one being and the outpouring and the expansion contained in loving one imperfect being perfectly is so great that it expands our heart to love everyone. Because the love comes from God in abundant supply, the more we draw at the fountain, the more abundantly it flows into our lives. We can then remain in this effortless, constant state of giving love to this person with absolutely no thought of what is going to be returned. Because so much unconditional love is being given, the energy between the two becomes magnified and flows effortlessly like the waves of the sea to the shore. This back and forth becomes like a rhythm which nourishes both spiritually with the energy of divine love. Then our hearts no longer suffer with the “what ifs” but rather celebrate the love that ALREADY IS, in every moment of the eternal NOW.

     To keep riding the ebbs and flows of this love asks for patience and resilience. This dance of the two souls requires our full surrender and trust for the connection, the process, ourselves, our Twin and God to allow things to unfold in their own way within the endless possibilities, limitless forms and abundant expressions of this love. When we surrender and set it free, we find that God works in our favor and if the love is true, it returns to us glorified because it knows NO OTHER WAY.  As Twin Flames we must never give up hope but rather to keep making the choice of LOVE because that’s how it’s meant to be. We are meant to be together to love each other, to help each other, to catch each other when we fall, to light each other’s paths, to give each other wings to fly and to ultimately return to each other and to God.

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You Will Know So Don't Worry, Be Happy.

     To be with someone in a relationship out of neediness, necessity, fear, desperation, afraid of or to be alone, etc.;  is selling yourself short, settling for less, conforming and not being fair to yourself or to the other involved.  The same holds true when it is time to move on, to let go and to be with who you are really truly meant to be with rich or poor unless certain factors that are dire such as one having a child and the other has not which more than likely would prevent a union.

     Those of you who think you can make someone fall in love with you, you can't, so don't even bother trying.  The Universe does not allow such bunk to happen.  Here is why.  It happens first before both who are "meant for each other" even meet during an "awakening moment" or "spiritual vision" at a certain point in life spiritually while being on the physical plane.  I know this for a fact due to past dreams, visions and experience (at age 21 in 1988 before the information explosion of the internet) that I have had concerning me, my Soul Love partner with whom I had a temporary relationship which resulted in permanent separation, and my Soul Mate who is also my Twin Flame and True Love with lessons to be learned from in which I'm sure both of them are learning theirs.  I've done my research after the experiences. 
     Your Soul Love partner prepares you before meeting your Twin Flame and your Twin Flame who is your True Love will let you know in advance what your Soul Love partner plans on doing (by being a tattle tale and giving a heads up warning) for good reason on the astral / spiritual plane within a dream with more dreams and visions afterwards before the journey even begins on the physical plane and your intuition will let you know while continuing on your life path in the physical realm.  This is something that sticks with you and isn't going to be shook off and you have to keep aware via your spiritual senses, intuition and emotions while going forward on the journey.  Most of you will find the information needed here within this website while on the journey.  I'm just the guide and someone who knows to the fullest what could happen if you make certain decisions that will affect your future later on down the road, take the advice and knowledge given here within this website with consideration.  It will help you.   
     I met my Soul Partner before the information explosion and then I met my Soul Mate after the information explosion.  It was extremely confusing to me at the time after the initial dreams, visions and experiences that I have had and continue to experience in which I now have it all sorted out and understood completely and clearly.  I am amazed that I could meet two individuals via dreams and visions as adults spiritually before meeting them on the physical plane. 
     To be in a "love triangle" is not a cup of tea I would recommend what so ever.  It's very grueling mentally, emotionally and spiritually after a separation has happened first with a "soul love partner" that ends up being permanent and then running into your "soul mate who is of course your twin flame" afterwards with another separation via dark night of the soul before a union concerning your "soul mate / twin flame" takes place.  There are spiritual battles that take place in the spiritual arena and you better know your stuff before even thinking about going into the arena because there are others involved that will upset the whole apple cart and try to thwart the whole thing.  Both twins will be tested by the universe without mercy and it's a test not to fail, you better know what you want and don't want in life in advance and if not, you better start planning and doing.
     This was a total surprise, very unexpected and something that just happens in life.  Your twin flame will let you know in a very certain manner and tone that "you aren't going anywhere" without their own self being with you just in case you made plans to go to the other side of the planet and continue your life journey solo and "you'll know why" afterwards.  For you men, the ball and chain gets slapped on before you take flight and your twin will be quite the sly fox in doing so before you even realize it, of course the twin will also have to keep up the end of the bargain or risk losing everything.  Later, you'll find out it's for the best intentions at heart so you will need to "wise up" and sharpen them spiritual swords "knowledge with spiritual cleansing" and get ready to deal with your ego which isn't going to be too happy about going to the "dog house" having to make room for your rib who will also be going through her own dark night of the soul as well and I am sure "the rib" isn't all that happy about going through the process either.  All in good and divine right timing of course.
     Since I am a musician and a seer, I later found out through other research that I have opened up my chakras through music which caused me to have my spiritual dreams and visions.  Music without words is a powerful language.  All those of the Arts have their specific language and are more in tune than those who are not Artists which is why most of "society" considers us Artists to be crazy and mysterious.  Those of "society" are the crazy ones and don't even know the language.  They capitalize on artists who aren't mature enough in their field and those poor artists who aren't aware end up self destructing afterwards.  What is stated here on this page in my explaining to you (which is 100% accurate to the best of my ability) and through others examples who are providing information (which isn't 100% accurate and I thank them for their help for providing information that is at least to me 75% accurate so that I could write this page) is true to form.

     A human being has more than one heart; there is the physical and spiritual hearts that coincide with the heart of the mind, the heart itself and the heart located within the abdomen below the naval also known as gut instinct and these three inform you via intuition coinciding with and through your crown chakras above your head down to the chakras located below your feet.  Your Twin Flame will have touched your core being on all these levels including the chakras each containing a core heart on the physical, astral and spiritual planes.  Don't argue with me on this, I've done my research and have my life experiences concerning this (without the use of drugs or any other form of catalyst other than music and meditation) and you will lose the argument.

     There is your spiritual body which is also your astral body that resides within your physical body which mirrors your spiritual / astral body.  These bodies coincide together within the physical plane simultaneously except that your spiritual / astral body travels at certain points of time either while sleeping or during meditation whether you realize it or not or remember it or not hence the term deja vu.  Every human being has and is doing so.  You are what you are concerning gender when you were born here into this world.  If you are a male physically with a male body, you are a male spiritually with a spiritual male body; if you are a female physically with a female body you are a female spiritually with a spiritual female body; no alterations of any sort can change this law either on the physical, astral or spiritual planes although there are those who vainly try to do so here on the physical plane and are being subject to confusion all of whom need spiritual help and guidance.  This is a fact from my personal experience via my dreams and visions in the spiritual / astral plane and finally the physical plane as well as biblically and no one on this earth can tell you that you simply made a choice to be a male or female.  How would those who said you made a choice know what choice or choices you have made to begin with concerning anything anyhow before being born into this world ??  The answer is they don't know and they don't know you personally and never have and are lying if they say they do. 

     I would also like to mention that anyone who says they have a special message via cards, astrology and other such ways either in person or internet concerning twin flames also known as soul mates don't have a message since they don't know you or themselves in the first place.  It turns my stomach and makes me want to puke with all the hocus pocus full of bullshit in which they who present such falsehoods don't know what they are doing or messing with; putting out messages and information into the universe that cumulates into mass confusion causing a pipe clog and they need to stop so that us twin flames can go about doing our work without interference and un-necessary extra work due to interference, ignorance, clogging and confusion.  Those whom speak from personal experience that are truthful about the twin flame journey know firsthand and these beautiful souls are the only ones that are to be considered knowledgeable to the utmost since we are not about child's play.  This is serious stuff which can be dangerous at certain times via spiritual battles against adversity that must be handled in a mature and brave manner.  You children need to stop putting out the bullshit and grow up.

     Note :  When speaking of past life, it is not in reference to reincarnation but rather in reference to your life experiences that have happened in the past within this lifetime.  Please read about deja vu for a more clearer understanding.  I have no reason to believe in reincarnation nor have experienced any reincarnation and to me there is no reincarnation; why the hell would anyone want to come back to this mess would be beyond me.  I'm what is considered to be an earth angel with a message and a mission therefore I have been sent and had no idea and yes we do fall prey to the matrix without any recollection of where we came from until it is time to know in which case we have to do our own healing and reprogram ourselves with help along the way from other earth angels in order to get back to the original state of being, health and wholeness that we were before we arrived into this evil matrix that has tried to kill us quickly or slowly, conform us or enslave us in which case I have succeeded in conquering and I'm on my way totally free and back to health.  Trust me when I tell you, I KNOW FOR A FACT although I can not prove it to you.

     When I go back to my eternal home, that is where I plan on staying, permanently.  There are those who consider me to be an enlightened being, ascended master or avatar due to my numerological chart concerning my birthday having the three master numbers 11, 22 and 33 in the solar chart.  To those out there who are "so knowledgeable" that consider me to be as such, suck it up, what I am stating here is the truth.  Quit being stuck on stupid and trying to rewrite the Universal Laws to fit your perceived reality; it is of anti-christos meaning in English un-anointed and devoid of the Spirit of Truth.  Back to the subject at hand.

     The law of the spiritual plane is steadfast, unmovable and does not change no matter what one tries to do here on earth physically.  There are karmic repercussions concerning the Universal Laws for doing so.  This I also know as fact due to past dreams, visions and experience in the Spiritual and Astral realms.  An experience you have had and didn't know to begin with is your best indicator and teacher to learn from before looking for the correct information to understand and explain the experience for yourself so that you can explain it to others correctly.  This is how you become knowledgeable and unmovable.  There is spiritual guidance from God or "Source" if you will to find the correct information.

      For you Women who think a way to a man's heart is through his stomach or playing some type of head game, using sex as a weapon, gimmicks, use some magical spell or worse; trying to get in his wallet or getting pregnant to keep him around or getting pregnant by someone else and lying to the other to keep him or otherwise while also being a control freak, think again;  you have only been fooling yourselves and will eventually lose.  Karma and the Universal Laws will slam you.

      Love, honesty, strength, being knowledgeable, being understanding and communicative, being respectful having virtue and all the good qualities a woman can be no matter what situation she may be in are prized above all else.  She could be a stripper or club dancer and still have virtue.  Woman, if you didn't strike his heart and he didn't strike yours on all levels, he is not in love with you and you are not in love with him nor will ever be.  There can be only one so just be yourself and be truthful.

      Sex can't be used as a weapon towards a man who is truly a man and you men need to quit playing head games and trying to control women for your own personal satisfaction and start being real men and wearing the pants again.  Love and Respect your woman and your woman will Love and Respect you back.

      For you Men, you can't buy a woman's heart, force her to stay, play some type of head game, or worse, getting her pregnant to keep her around, being a control freak or otherwise.  You have only been fooling yourselves and will eventually lose.  Karma and the Universal Laws will slam you.

     You must love, have a plan, know where you are going, be honest, be knowledgeable, be understanding, be strong, courteous, respectful, mindful, confident, protective, communicative, curious, fun, easy-going; basically just all the good stuff.  Her all in all and you must tell her that.  You will be judged so don't go around thinking you can fool a woman since She follows her intuition first.  You must possess something of value and it isn't necessarily your money or your pride.  She is going to be looking for a true genuineness and sincerity.  Sir, If you didn't strike her heart and she didn't strike yours on all levels, she is not in love with you and you are not in love with her nor will ever be.  There can be only one so just be yourself and be truthful.

     A relationship is just a relationship and lust is lust, but true love is true love, especially when it comes to Twin Flames.   Look within and then talk about it.

     Money isn't everything but being a true, caring, considerate human being that understands does.

Conclusion  :

      For those of you who are Twin Flames and have found each other or are about to, click on the links for some great information at the bottom of the page.  Twin Flame relationships which are Soul Mate relationships are way different than a soul partner "love" relationship, general superficial relationships or soul partner relationships (family, friends, pets) and the following links have information that will help and explain what you are going through before union takes place.  Keep the faith.

     At right is a picture of baphomet.  It's a drawing telling an encrypted story in more ways than one.  Most people who blindly follow others teachings without studying say that baphomet is a representation of the Devil and given the name Lucifer and this just simply isn't so.  Lucifer is known as a bringer of light and no where is there any proof of Lucifer being a fallen angel and then had a name change into Satan.  Lucifer and The Morning Star are both synonymous with the planet Venus.  In the words of Homer Simpson, "DOH !" 
       In this representation of baphomet, the symbolization is of  kundalini, union of polarity, the hermaphrodite (male and female as one within the same body spiritually, this is the spiritual union / marriage on both the spiritual and physical plane at the same time where a part of each is given and shared within the same body, but yet also having separate spiritual and physical bodies) being represented by the two interlaced triangles, the upward-pointing as male, fire and the heavens, and the downward-pointing as female, the waters and the earth. This picture doesn't represent bisexual, homosexual, lesbian or transgender.  It means Yin and Yang, Mars and Venus, Sun and Moon, Fire and Water, Light and Dark in one vessel. 
     There are other encryptions about the baphomet I have found which are in other parts of this website.  This is one of the many encryptions from Eliphas Levi containing "the sum total of the universe".

     What is  most disturbing are the ignorant, ugly and uneducated comments from so called christians, satanists and intellectuals who think they are in the know and don't realize how truly blind they themselves really are and are very quick to demonize anything that goes against their religious psyop narrative looking for people to follow and fool because they know most do not study having superstitious beliefs.

     Related links for Twin Flames :  There is certain particular information that is 100% absolutely correct within these websites based off of my life experiences that I think will help for any of you Twins out there.

             1.  How to shut down the Twin Flame connection
             2.  Why you are not reunited with your Twin Flame
             3.  Why Twin Flames must reunite
             4.  The Mirror of My Soul – Stories of you, me and eternity
             5.  Twin Flame love – from romantic fantasy to spiritual practice of love
             6.  Twin Flames – Origin, Purpose, and Relationships
             7.  How Do I Know If I Have Found My Twin Flame?
             8.  Four shifts you will experience when meeting your Twin Flame
             9.  Getting Through The Dark Night Of The Soul
           10.  Twin Flame separation - how to pass the test

           11.  The Purpose of The Twin Flame Relationship
           12.  Love Sayings and Quotes
           13.  My Twin Flame Journey - by Samantha Lucas
           14.  Signs that you are in a Twin Flame relationship
           15.  Help for suffering Twin Flames - Some interesting notes concerning the twin flame mission.

     The story of the twin flame dance is told in music, theatre, dance, art and even nature itself and in so many ways since the very beginning.  The following are just two examples :

             1.  "Farruca", Ivan Vargas & Kasandra "La China", flamenco dancers
             2.  Santiago's Dream

      Meditation :  Do a search on twinflames, balance, or on any subject matter concerning yourself and where you are, etc.

     Know about Jezebel and Ahab.  Knowledge and experience is your ammunition.  Know your demonic enemies, how they work and how to defeat them.

     For those of you who consider yourselves to be matchmakers, stay out of it, you could make yourself and the person you are trying to match up with either by suggestion or insinuation look like a fool and you (the matchmaker) will suffer for it from one or both parties involved including bashing your own self over the head for doing such a thing.  A person who knows himself or herself and where they have been and know where they are going will smell you out like a dead rat since that person knows himself / herself to the utmost and knows what is best without your interfering or intermingling.

Originally written and published by JWPJr on April 11, 2016