Guidance concerning mental, physical, emotional and spiritual aspects.

    You are where you are and your life is the way it is because you chose it to be.  There are, however, extenuating circumstances beyond reasonable control within a certain percentage of some peoples lives that need help.  Those who do not fall within the extenuating circumstance have no excuse and need to stop making excuses and start being responsible for their own lives and actions in what they have done to themselves and others.  Quit expecting others to clean up the mess that you yourself made and clean it up yourself.  You can always make a change for the better and there is help available where needed.  Ask, Seek, Knock.

    Might I also add that if anyone comes to mind be it past or present, pray for their well being and that they are guided, protected and loved no matter what they have or have not done to or for you aside from praying for yourself, your loved ones, etc.

1.  Top ten ways to make smart choices.
2.  Top ten ways to gain, boost or maintain self esteem.
3.  Top ten ways to build a positive attitude.
4.  Top ten ways to resolve conflicts.
5.  The Art of Planning Goals.
6.  Some Words of Wisdom.
7.  Meditation 
8.  School Called Life by Yvonne Kariba
9.  Dimensions of Light : Personal and Spiritual Awakening

SongOvercomer by Mandisa

Top ten ways to resolve conflicts

  1.  Make sure you understand the problem.  Deal with the topic at hand without leading to other topics.

  2.  Use a mediator or referee.

  3.  Put yourself in the other persons shoes.

  4.  Compromise.  Give a little get a little.

  5.  Find a "win - win" solution.

  6.  Listen to the other persons point of view.

  7.  State your side clearly, concisely and calmly.

  8.  Express your feelings honestly.

  9.  Let each side speak without interruption.

10.  If all else fails, seek expert advice.