Guidance concerning mental, physical, emotional, spiritual and financial aspects.

     You are where you are and your life is the way it is because you chose it to be.  There are, however, extenuating circumstances beyond reasonable control within a certain percentage of some peoples lives that need help.  Those who do not fall within the extenuating circumstances have no excuse and need to stop making excuses and start being responsible for their own lives and actions in what they have done to themselves and others.  Quit expecting others to clean up the mess that you yourself made and clean it up yourself.  You can always make a change for the better and there is help available where needed.  Ask, Seek, Knock.

     Might I also add that if anyone comes to mind be it past or present, pray for their well being and that they are guided, protected and loved no matter what they have or have not done to or for you aside from praying for yourself, your loved ones, friends, the homeless, those whom are in desperate need of help or healing, etc.

     Faith is being sure and positive.  Hope is expectation and anticipation.  Belief is receiving and accepting.  Knowledge is acquired information.  Wisdom is the applied use of knowledge with understanding.  Trust is having confidence in.  Searching is seeking to find or discover.  Diligence is not giving up, being persistent.  Discernment is perceiving and analyzing.  Judgment is a conclusion.  Reward is an award given for being obedient and mindful in regards to the specific Laws of the Universe.  Punishment is a penalty for being disobedient and ignorant for not regarding the specific Laws of the Universe.  Truth is Truth and it is what it is.  It is that simple.

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Words of Wisdom

     The following are some words of wisdom that I find helpful, useful, and  worth saying to myself in my day to day living to help cope with any negativity, uneasiness, unhappiness, etc. aside from the bible and prayer.  Some of them you have already heard.  Repeat to yourself as often as necessary.

     I know that many of you are down and out, hopeless, in despair, poor, broke, broken-hearted, depressed, confused, angry and saying to yourselves that there is something amiss and there has got to be more to the picture. I've been there myself and I'm still working on my pursuit which is never ending. Faith in Almighty God, prayer, hope, love, patience and belief in oneself so that one is able to attain the desires of ones heart is but a part of the formula.

     Another part of the formula is that you'll have to look at yourself in the mirror and evaluate. You'll then have to go to God Almighty and ask for forgiveness, then forgive yourself and then forgive others. You'll have to start making plans and goals for yourself; small steps can lead to great strides and it's the little things that kill. You'll have to be willing to search, study, take notes and work. You'll have to start taking action and be willing to step outside of the box. You'll have to solve the problem or problems with or without help.  This will help you to heal and go through a healing process.

     Solutions are available if one knows where to look or if one asks for help and guidance. You'll have to pray, focus, meditate, think and plan.

     I recommend keeping a journal; it'll help immensely and one will have to realize God isn't some genie where he waves a magic wand and poof things just magically appear or disappear overnight. It requires effort on your part and one should not go through life with tunnel vision. Open your eyes and look around yourself, above yourself, beneath yourself and within yourself.

     Mantra 1 :  " I will be all right.  Everything will turn out just fine, arrive at the right time, fall into its proper place and be for my highest good and worthy ideal.  Today is better than yesterday and tomorrow will be better than today.  Remain and stay calm and focused.  You are as welcome as the flowers in my garden.  And this too shall pass, one day at a time.  It gets better and it gets easier.  Unconditional love is not unconditional acceptance. " 

     Mantra 2 :  " Doubt and discourse do not affect me, I am in control of my destiny.  I am that, I am. "

  1.  Love is the glue on the tape that keeps the seams of life together.  God is Love.
  2.  And this too shall pass.  It get's better and it gets easier.  It is finished !
  3.  Be not anxious.
  4.  Time is like money; use, save and spend wisely.  The perfect time is always now.
  5.  It's not me it's them.
  6.  Forgive and Forget then move on.
  7.  Patience and hopefulness are virtues.  Be Patient and Hopeful.
  8.  God Almighty rewards those who stand with Him, are diligent and remain steadfast.
  9.  Plan and remain focused.  Know what you want, write it down and set your goals to reach at a given certain point and time in the future.  Have a perspective and a purpose.  Use your imagination and dream then go for it.
10.  Don't ever give up, always remain in hopeful expectation striving for the desire's of ones heart.
11.  Remember to pray and talk to God Almighty and read His words of wisdom in the Bible.
12.  Praise God by saying Hallelu-Yah three times a day.  Morning, Afternoon and Night.
13.  Change and Variety is a good thing instead of the same 'ol, same 'ol.
14.  Keep It Simple, Stupid or Keep it Stupid Simple. - The Kiss Rule.
15.  Don't worry, be happy.
16.  Be organized, have things in order and in their proper place.
17.  Cleanliness is next to Godliness.
18.  Get up off the couch, away from the television and go do something constructive.
19.  Living in a life filled with re-runs goes nowhere.  Get out of the spin zone and quit chasing your tail.
20.  Learning and self educating in any area of subject matter will improve oneself.
21.  Laziness is procrastination in hyper mode.
22.  Get away from it all, even if it is for only a half an hour.  Go for a walk, ride a bike.  It's free.
23.  Anytime of day to get away from it all is better than sitting around and feeling fuzzy and razzled.
24.  It's always good to rest and relax with no outside distractions or disturbances.
25.  Breath the air, feel the rain, smell the snow before it arrives and ride the wind.
26.  Puzzles, exercise and work will keep the mind in tune and alert.
27.  Vacations, even mini ones at home, are great ways for total rest and rejuvenation.
28.  Negatives can be turned into Positives.  Look for the good that can be done in a negative situation.
29.  Too much of a good thing can become a bad thing and lead to addiction which will dull the senses and then in turn ultimately becomes self abuse that will destroy.  Moderation, Self Control, Discipline and Balance are keys.
30.  Gluttony can lead to self deficiency.  Proper eating habits have long term benefits.
31.  Fads are here today gone tomorrow and one can become a victim if not careful.
32.  Gardening and outdoor landscaping are one of many hobbies that is awesome.
33.  To open ones mouth and communicate clearly and be understood is self expression of one's thoughts and emotions.  Know when to speak and know when to keep quiet and listen. 
34.  Haste makes waste.  Where's the fire ??  Do not drain yourself of energy, resources, time or money.  Recharge.
35.  Don't put all your eggs in one basket; have a plan b, c, etc.
36.  Giving and helping without expecting anything in return is a sign of Godliness and Virtue.
37.  Living to impress someone or a group is a sign of neediness to feel validated.  Just be yourself.
38.  To be safe will prevent being sorry later.
39.  The early bird gets the worm.  The sweet smell of success and accomplishment.
40.  If you fail to plan you plan to fail.  Take the time and make the time to think.
41.  Every little bit helps.  Get 'er done !  :)
42.  Laughter is the best medicine.
43.  Got a question ?  Search for the solution or ask someone who might know.
44.  It takes time for wounds to heal; be it mental, physical, emotional or spiritual.
45.  Meditating and Reflecting is a good thing.
46.  Do what is right and what is best and you can't go wrong.  Have respect, sound judgment, good morals and ethics.
47.  Failure is not an option.  If you fall, get up, brush yourself off and move on.
48.  Get your ducks in a row.  Be willing.  Do your very best and try. 
49.  Wait until the last minute and it will be your last minute.  No better time than the present.  Now !
50.  Take care of yourself and your own first then help others.  Yours and your owns health and well being comes first.
51.  Saying  NO  is  OKAY.
52.  Learn to meditate and reflect.
53.  Gossiping is for hens in a henhouse that henpeck behind others backs unbeknown.  Mind your own if it does not directly involve you and don't sit with the cackling hens.  Keeping ones mouth shut is extremely wise at any time and hides a lot of secrets.
54.  Recognize self abuse and stop it.
55.  Look in the mirror.  Talk to yourself, forgive yourself, love yourself.  You are your own best friend.
56.  Grab the wheel and be in control of your own destiny.  A ship without a captain at the wheel will not be able to undock or even make it out of the harbor to set sail and head towards new horizons.  Be adventurous !
57.  The Sky is the limit which leads to the universe and beyond.  To profit doesn't involve only money.
58.  Your mind is your garden with acres and fields of diamonds.  Cultivate and mine wisely.
59.  Set yourself in motion.  Be persistent.  Expect.  Believe, succeed and receive.  Love what you are doing and love what you are receiving :

       Daily Mantra :  I love receiving  __________ ,  and I love being  ___________ ,   and I love doing  _________  , etc.
       Right now I choose  _____________ , right now I choose _____________, right now I choose _____________ , etc.
60.  What are you waiting on ?  Get up and get moving !  Move it !  Move it !  Move it!
61.  Mantra :  " I will bend like a reed in the wind without breaking or being uprooted. "
62.  Perfect Love casts out fear.
63.  We are humans that make mistakes and think for ourselves, not robots that are pre-programmed.
64.  Make room for errors and learn from your mistakes.  It helps you to grow.
65.  Find the answers to your questions.  It's a treasure hunt !  Get help whenever it is necessary and don't be afraid to ask, the worst that can happen is receiving a no to your request.  This means you get to go on an adventure !
66.  The only one you can control is your own self.  If you are out of control you are not in control. Get a grip on yourself and stop trying to control or manipulate others lives.  You are only fooling and manipulating yourself and will lose in the end since all others have a say in the matter concerning themselves which of course is their own lives and not anyone else's to control.
67.  To involve a third party without all the facts is a lie.  Be truthful.  It will save yourself and the third party that was invited from both looking like fools.
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